Saturday, January 17, 2009

Sil Lai Abrams

This post was originally featured on www.gutsglamgrace.com.

You have to give to get! These are the empowering words spoken by mother, author and motivational speaker Sil Lai Abrams. No More Drama: Nine Steps to Transforming a Breakdown Into a Breakthrough is the name of Sil Lai’s book and she is determined to help women start the New Year off with a bang.

Sil Lai is a successful woman, but Sil Lai stands apart from others because she has experienced positives as well as negatives in her life that are not usually equated with the lives of successful women. Sil Lai’s experience of being at the top of her game to the bottom and back at the top again, gives her the insight to lead other women to live an empowering life.

No more drama is a theme women should take into the New Year. With the constant changes occurring in the lives of many, including the economic crisis and the possibility of layoffs, many women are stressed. Sil Lai highlighted that stress can lead to women not dealing honestly with their issues, but rather participating in activities where the consequences are not thought of before hand. We’re all familiar with this; blowing money on items that aren’t necessities is one of them.

The profound steps in the SEPIA Process came about as Sil Lai was experiencing a major shift in her life. “I was in the process of a negative breakup and I honestly didn’t see the light at the end of the tunnel,” said Sil Lai. While her story of an unhealthy relationship and break-up are not unique, the experience allowed Sil Lai to do something other women may have not been able to do. She dramatically changed her life and committed herself to helping other women change their’s as well.

Sil Lai encourages women to following the nine-step process, which will teach women to acknowledge the truth; learn acceptance; take action; make a commitment; focus; have faith; accept love; show humility and make the world a better way through charity towards others. “I had to choose the way I viewed and responded to events in my life,” said Sil Lai. This break through and acknowledgement of the power she has over her life has made Sil Lai an inspiration to women who are determined to take control of their own destiny this year.

Going into the New Year, everyone tends to have a number of resolutions. Whether it’s a weight lost, career aspirations or finding a mate, women should be realistic and take ownership of their resolutions to achieve them mentions Sil Lai. During our conversation Sil Lai mentioned a quote she tends to live by. “Water rises and sinks to its on level.” This is a profound quote that women should keep handy when the stress of keeping it together becomes overwhelming. No more drama in 2009 is certain to lead to a fantastic year.

NO MORE DRAMA by Sil Lai Abrams. $15.95 http://www.amazon.com/

~Tiffany Winbush

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3 comments:

News and jobs said...

this is a wonderful.........a message of hope to many who want to know more....keep it coming!!!!!!

Tiffany Winbush said...

Thanks for visiting WMM! I will certainly keep the inspirational posts coming highlighting women who inspire us all.

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